Sex

Let’s Talk About Sex

Sex is a drive that most adults respond to erratically. We are all human mammals with animalistic drives. It is the driving force of most life itself, so it makes sense for it to permeate all social cultures.

As a child, I didn’t care. It was a concept that was explained to me though school and the osmosis of human existence. I was more interested in other stuff.

As a teenager, it felt like my primary directive. My views were warped and occasionally disturbing as a result of enormous hormonal changes. Most teenagers are psychotic like that, and it’s why many teenagers are crazy. Their brains need time to adapt.

As a man, my thoughts have drifted towards sex, but adulthood has left me far more mellow than the ‘end all be all’ of teenage anguish.

Eventually I’m expected to have children and keep the cycle going. We’ll see what my future holds in that regard, but I’m not planning on having children (at least not until I find myself in a situation where it makes sense for me to).

Sex is the normal and hilariously bizarre form of our human reproduction process. We wouldn’t exist without it.

My Sexual Experience

My sex life is my business and I don’t have to tell you a damn thing.
Feel free to imagine whatever the hell you want.
I can do the same. Funny how that works.

I’m not unfamiliar with the act of sexual contact.

I received a rather extensive Health class, even in southern Alabama. I’ve followed up that chaotic mess of awkward conversations toward horny teenagers with subsequent research on the topic. The work of Masters and Johnson. Several academic studies interlaced with people trying to share better forms of educational content on the Internet. It’s been eclectic and weird, not unlike most views toward sex.

The Actual Act of Sex

Obviously porn isn’t the best representation about what truly happens during sex. The Internet has provided me with alternative “instructional” videos, articles, and pages about coitus that provide pleasure to both parties. The more I read into the subject, the differences between opposing sexual views became fascinating.

I mainly laugh at the idea of what happens when two individuals (or more) have sex. It’s just extremely funny to me. It is hard to seriously expect much from sex. Rhythmic thrusting and a few jokes about the absurdity of the situation are all that usually come to mind.

Passion and romance is nice. I hope that my experiences involve a great deal of sexual tension and attraction, but it’s extremely silly to expect it every time. My only goal is to give my partner as much pleasure as possible and hopefully allow them to achieve a satisfying orgasm.

My Views on Sex

Because of our placement on the human timeline (new millennium), sex has become more of an adult act of enjoyment/pleasure rather than a need to procreate the species.

That rush of intimacy drives us to make rash and stupid decisions with people that we don’t really know that well. We also do it with people that we do know rather well. It’s a fun mix.

Most of the time when individuals want to have sex, the pursuit of pleasure drives them. That isn’t a bad thing, but most aren’t constantly trying to create a kid.

Sex can be an integral part of long-term relationships. For others, it isn’t even considered.

I’m a hopeless romantic. Personally, sex is slightly more meaningful to me. Relationships are often a complex balance that relies on compromise and communication.

Both partners should have their opinions and thoughts heard in a meaningful way. Both need to agree to want to initiate sex. No one should be having fun if one isn’t enjoying themselves.

ANY TIME THAT SEX ISN’T AGREED UPON BY BOTH/ALL INDIVIDUALS, IT IS NON-CONSENSUAL.

Final Views on Sex (so far)

Comfort and pleasure go hand in hand. We all have our own opinions toward sex and that’s just fine.

Sex is supposed to be the best possible feeling in existence. I think it should make you laugh. The hilarity of the entire situation leading to two individuals acting in such an absurd way is just fantastic.

I’m excited to see how my life plays out, both in a sexual and non-sexual form.